Stop swiping.Meet your partner today.

Unlike swipe-based apps, we offer a personalized matchmaking experience powered by AI — Abby. She is guided by our own real human PhD psychologist. You get curated matches, private advice consultations.

Abby is your virtual matchmaking assistant. She guides you through the entire process—from intake to match reviews—and helps you fine-tune your preferences along the way. Think of her as your dating concierge.

Just download the app and start conversing with Abby. She'll walk you through everything—from how it works to setting up your intake interview.

Nope! Signing up, getting verified, and joining is completely free. You only pay if we present you with a match that you are sure you are going to like.

It's a private, one-on-one chat with Abby to get to know who you are, what you're looking for, and how we can match you best. This includes a short identity verification (totally confidential) and a series of personalized questions.

Your name, phone number, and photos are never shown to other members without your explicit permission, and they are kept in a separate, secure database. We will never sell your data. The only data we share with advertising partners like Meta is a narrow set of measurement signals — never your name, photos, or sensitive details — and you can opt out anytime. We work with other trusted service providers to run Abby; our Privacy Policy lists every recipient and what each one receives.

Once your profile is ready, Abby uploads it—without your personal info—to our matchmaking engine. Our AI system then analyzes compatibility with hundreds of other profiles to find your ideal match for you.

It compares your preferences, values, relationship goals, communication styles, all your preferences and more across our database to find deep-level compatibility—not just surface-level attraction. YES we also take into account your physical look and desire type in our matchmaking.

Not initially. We curate matches for you, but you always have final say. Abby presents each match personally, and you can approve, decline, or adjust your preferences anytime.

No problem! Abby will review your feedback and help you refine your profile or preferences to improve the next match. We're committed to finding the right person—not just a person.

Quality over quantity is our focus. You'll receive matches only when they meet our high compatibility standards. We aim for 3 times per week, the timing may vary based on your profile and preferences. Abby will present you with the top candidates, you can choose one of them or ask Abby to find you others, this will refine our search and will be a better match next time.

Only after both parties have reviewed the match and agree to move forward. At that point, Abby will ask for your explicit consent before sharing any of your photos in your profile.

Phone numbers or any other contact info you have selected are only shared after you've both seen each other's pictures and confirm that you want to meet. That's when your match becomes official.

You're always in control. You can go to your matches screen and delete any match there, it will be deleted in both sides. You can pause, update, or delete your profile anytime. We believe in consensual, pressure-free matchmaking.

We focus on meaningful, emotionally intelligent and compatible matches. Whether that's a long-term relationship, deep companionship, or something unique to you, we aim for real over random.

Yes, and we love that! Share Abby with friends you think would be a great fit — the more thoughtful people in the community, the better everyone's matches get.

Downloading Abby and meeting your matchmaker is free. You only pay when you decide to connect with a match you like — no match, no payment.

Abby is available now on the App Store for iPhone and on Google Play for Android. Download the app and start talking to Abby. You must be 21 or older to create an account.